THE REAL MAN THOUGHT

So I happen to make this thing last month when I first started my open journal. I was thinking about what a mature man would question about making his own family, love life, etc. I don’t know if these questions are true that older aged guys will think this way, but I hope it makes us girls (who read my blog) will think further about the man they love and you boys (who also happen to stop by and read) think these stuffs for the future.

Noted on March 24^th, 2014

Do I look good enough?

Did I do good?

What if I was never there for her?

Am I worthy of our love?

Do we have to sacrifice our relationship for something unimportant?

Did she care about me?

What would she say about me to her friends?

What if she doubted our relationship and quit trying?

How can I hold her in my arms so she will stay?

Will my love be satisfying enough for her in return?

Am I her knight in shining armor?

Will she be proud of my achievements?

Will I be able to buy her and us a home?

How would she handle our marriage?

Can I rely on her?

Can we find a way out of our problems and arguments?

What would she say to our kids?

The happy life we’re bound to live, are we to achieve that?

Can I be the man my kids look up to?

What about my mom and dad?

Can I be faithful to one woman only in my life?

Can I love her as I love my mother?

Will my parents accept her as “us”?

Can I respect her as how I want people to respect me?

Did she judge me by my past?

Can she stand alone without me?

What are her dreams of a perfect life?

Will she accept me for who I am?

Will I actually meet the perfect mate that God give me? Or will I be stuck with the wrong woman I grew madly in love the first time we met?

How do I know it’s her?

How do I know she’s the one?

Will God’s blessing be upon us?

Will she also put God #1 in her life?

Can I be a priest for our family?

And if someday we got married, are we able to keep our virginities and first kiss for each other?

Will we still have the spark when we grow old?

What would I do without her?

Will I cry over her death?

If yes is the answer to all of those, you can definitely be sure to make her your wife and let her take care of your life. –red

“Marriage isn’t about how long your party stays, but how long you can keep your party everyday” -@evelyngwyneth